Arlene was born in the backseat of a Pink Cadillac on the corner of Kingsway and Joyce Road in Vancouver BC, and she will forever be remembered as a giving and loving spirit who cherished her family and friends.
As is life, her giving nature continues in her passing, and her status as an organ donor has saved three lives and helped countless others.
Arlene grew up in Victoria and was always surrounded by many friends. She was a fun loving person with an outgoing personality and a cheerful spirit. She enjoyed baking, quilting, gardening, going for long walks and was known for her many hours on the telephone staying connected with those she held dear.
Arlene is predeceased by her dad, Richard Carson, stepdad Jim Gray and brother-in-law Mark Parsons. She is survived by her husband of 31 years, Murray Thomas, her mom Mary Joan Gray,sister Louanne Parsons (Sunshine & Misty (Pam)), brother Rick (Val) Carson, sister Colleen (Steve) Brent and Jennifer Coultas. She also leaves behind step-children Tammy (Ted) Austin and Mike (Cheryl) Thomas and grandchildren, Katelynn, Emma, Dayton and Cooper. Her great nieces and nephews, Paige, Jayden, Hannah, Linden also survive her, along with too many friends to list, whom Arlene considered and treated like family.
Arlene will always be in our hearts and will be fondly remembered.
In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting that you take the time with your family to register as organ donors.
A Celebration on Life will be held at the Royal Colwood Golf Club on Sunday, November 5th at 1:00 p.m.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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Beauty starts the heart of a young girl I have known most of her life ! Will always be in my heart, I am in tears . So very sorry to hear the family and you Murray, condolence.
Murray,
We’re sending our heartfelt condolences to you and all Arlene’s Family. Arlene was everything good in life. Bumping into her anywhere you always left smiling and laughing A funny and kind lady who was loved by all. My mom loved chatting her up at the barn on Blanchard Arlene leaves this world a better place because of all the laughter and memories she leaves behind.
RIP Arlene
Sincerely, Sue Jay and Mark Chudleigh
Sincerely Sue, Jay and Mark Chudleigh
I am utterly devastated by Arlene’s passing. She was one of the most thoughtful people I’ve ever met and she touched so many lives of those around her. She was so welcoming to me when I started at Memorial Arena. She was “Real”. She had a gift of making people feel at ease and I will miss her phone calls and I will forever miss her. Murray, no words can ever express the sympathy and empathy we feel for you at this time. Arlene was loved by so many. I am sending my deepest, deepest condolences for the passing of Arlene. There are no words that can fully convey how sorry I am. I know her and Max are together looking down. Have a beer ready for me when its my time to join you both. Maybe a couple of slot machines as well. RIP my amazing and wonderful Friend. Love your Friend Always, Barb
Arlene and I became besties in 1981. Though I have not seen her in decades, our phone calls were a big part of my joy. She really cares. Fact, it is her spirit that I love so dearly. I miss her. I wish you peace Murray, she loves you eternally.
Hugs to you Murray I am so sad to hear of Arlene’s passing . she was such a sweet heart . Condolences to you and your family
Very sad to read about Arlene’s passing ,condolences to you Murray and family.
Arlene
I will miss your beautiful energy and kindness. We shared the same birthday. Thank you for being such a dear wonderful friend to my Mom.
We love you always.
Debra
Am so saddened. Will miss your beautiful smile & laughter whenever we meet. Your are the kindest person I’ve ever met. I have many great memories- too many to list. Till we meet again my Friend.
Condolences to Murray & your family.
Sincere condolences to Murray and your family. Cherish the memories of a wonderful lady and friend to us all.
Dear Murray my deepest condolences.
Arlene will be surely missed by all that knew her, truly a wonderful beautiful soul.