Barry Walton Traynor

August 11, 1939 - February 17, 2021

August 11, 1939 - February 17, 2021

Barry was born August 11, 1939 in Peterborough, ON passed away February 17, 2021at 7:00 am at his home in Victoria with Edna at his side.

Barry was born to Dennis and Olwen Traynor (deceased).  Barry resided in Peterborough until 1961 at which

time he joined the Royal Canadian Mounted Police.  His career with the Force took him to Nova Scotia, H Division for 5 years; Saskatchewan F Division in Swift Current, SK and Saskatoon for 7 years, and the rest of his distinguished career at HQ, Ottawa till 1984 when he joined the Canadian Security Intelligence Service (CSIS) until his retirement in 1993.  Barry was the recipient of a Long Service Medal with the Royal Canadian Mounted Police. In his career, Barry guarded Pope John Paul II and Prime Minister Pierre Elliott Trudeau.  Barry lived his life with a profound sense of duty and respect for all.

Barry was a dedicated Dad to three sons: Darryl (Estelle), Michael (Nancy) and Andrew, all residing in Ottawa and daughter, Janelle (Kevin) of Washington, DC.  Granddaughter, Emily Traynor of DC, Grandsons: Matthew, Rhys, Owen, Jakob and Will Traynor, all of Ottawa. Barry is survived by brother, Brent (Barb) of Newcastle, ON; sisters, Megan (Tom) Endicott and Gaye (Wayne) Campanaro of Peterborough, ON.

Barry, a true gentleman,a man of his word and was greatly admired for his character, integrity, humility, unwavering moral standards, and above all true love of his wife, Edna.  It was during his service in Saskatoon where he met

Edna and they remained friends for over 30 years. It was in 2008 where his joy for life was renewed. Barry moved to Victoria, BC to take up a new life with Edna where they were married on Edna’s birthday August 12, 2011.  They shared more faith, adventures, experiences, laughter and love than most people share in a lifetime.  They truly enjoyed the best years of their lives cruising, dancing and travelling to

over 40 countries and spending winter months in AZ, CA .He is saddened to leave behind, the love of his life, best friend and wife of 9 years. He was most grateful each and every day that he was blessed with love, support and faith.

Barry became a beloved stepfather to Mary Alice Webb (StevenHaws) Victoria, Gerard (Corinne) McCarthy, Kelowna and Anita McCarthy, Gold Coast, Australia as well as five step grandsons and seven step great grandchildren. Barry never met a stranger.  He could strike a conversation with anyone and share laughter.  He never missed an opportunity to gather with colleagues/friends when returning to Ottawa for visits. He spent his entire life being himself and anyone would be grateful to have a friend like him.

 

Barry was a Life Member of Orleans Kinsmen, RCMP Vets,

Victoria and Pillar Society of CSIS.  He was awarded the “Neighbourhood Mayor” award in Orleans.  He had a great love of hunting with his father at Traynors’ Camp, which dates back to his childhood and in later years, with his cousins.

 

Barry left this world with nothing unsaid and knowing that he lived an exciting life, full of adventure and love, a life truly blessed by the Grace of God.  He often said we should be as lucky and as fortunate as he.

Barry wishes to thank family, co-workers and friends for the many meaningful tributes paid during his illness. One common thread in these tributes, his apparent love for Edna and the happiness she brought to his life. Our thanks to Dr. Franco and his cardiac team for giving Barry and I more time to enjoy.  Thank you also to Dr. J. Aiken, all hospice and BC Cancer Agency nurses and doctors, Saanich Community Nurses and staff.  Thank you.

He prays everyone will remember him as an honest, fun loving man.  Until we meet again, may God bless you and hold you in

His hands and comfort you with memories of love, laughter and fun shared.

Cremation has taken place.  His final resting place will be Beechwood National Memorial Centre, Ottawa and shared with Edna at Royal Oak Columbarium.  Barry’s Celebration of Life will be post COVID, details will be announced:  Sacred Heart Church, 4040 Nelthorpe St., Victoria and at Beechwood National Memorial Centre, 280 Beechwood, Ave., Ottawa, ON.

Condolences may be offered to the family below.

McCall Gardens
www.mccallgardens.com

Here is the link: from Sacred Heart Church Sept. 4, 2021   It cannot be found by searching in YouTube:::

https://youtu.be/mAffhB6ExB4

 This is the link from the Good Shepherd Church in Ottawa October 1, 2021::::

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l8Qh4Q0Y0kc

 

 

31 Responses

  1. To the Traynor family it’s with a heavy heart I’m reading about the passing of such a great gentleman. It as an honor knowing Mr. Traynor while growing up in Orleans. My deepest and heartfelt condolences to the entire family. RIP gentle soul.

  2. I knew Barry in 1986 in Headquarters. He was a most respected person. He was always interested in people’s lives and his smile and laughter were engaging. He loved his family and life in general. My sincere condolences to his family.

  3. I was very saddened to see Barry’s obituary this morning. Barry was our neighbour on Lefebvre Way for many years and he was always there to lend a helping hand. Although he’s been gone from here for years, we still think of him fondly…he watched out for my mom and dad while we were at work…thank you Barry…God speed

  4. We were so saddened to hear that Barry had passed away. A friend, neighbor and co-worker, he was always genial and pleasant. We will fondly remember him as “the Mayor of Prestwick Drive”.

  5. What a great guy. I met him through the numerous training courses I took and I always looked forward to having Barry as my trainer. I loved his infectiousness. You have my deepest sympathy.

  6. I will always remember Barry as a larger than life pillar of our community of Queenswood Heights. My condolences and those of my sons, Dave and Jeff, to the Traynor family on this sad occasion. RIP Barry.

  7. Barry you as a great man Edna. I very much respected him. Mostly I loved his laugh…. he was warm and caring. You know where to find me in the lonely days ahead…. much love….Rosie

  8. My condolences to Barry’s family. He trained alot of us both in the RCMP and CSIS and his laughter and humour was contagious. My prayers are with him.

  9. Barry was like a big brother to all of us who grew up with him on Aylmer St. He came from a wonderful family. Sean

  10. Dear Edna and family, we are very saddened at Barry’s passing. It was great to be able to video chat with him the evening prior. Barry will be missed by all of us who worked with him and treasured his acquaintance, he was a wonderful co-worker and an outstanding person to have as a friend.

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