Marlene peacefully went to heaven after a courageous three-year battle with Multiple Myeloma. She was surrounded by her loving family and comforted by her deep Christian faith. She was predeceased by parents Hank and Mary Casilio. Survived by husband Doug, daughters Leanne (Ron), Marcy (Seb), son Scott (Margaret), and sister Patti. Also survived by her adoring grandchildren Matt (Gina), Josh (Lauren), Chris, Christian, Jonathan, David, Gilles, Jahniaa (Isaac), Hailesha, and great-grandson Ziah. Also, much loved and missed by many nieces, nephews, cousins and countless friends.
Born and raised in Victoria Marlene graduated from Mt. View High School in 1964 and from R.J.H. School of Nursing in 1968. She and her classmates carried enduring friendships, including many reunions. She enjoyed a long career as an R.N. at R.J.H. mostly in cardiac care.
Marlene and Doug met in high school and married in 1967. They enjoyed a beautiful life filled with family, love and faith. Following retirement, they spent many winters in Arizona with a tight knit friend group. Marlene was an avid tennis player, later taking on the sport of pickle ball. She and Doug travelled extensively. At home she loved to entertain and you could guarantee her meals were followed by many recipe requests. She enjoyed gardening but most of all the company of family, especially her grandchildren. She and Doug were usually in the stands cheering them on through various sporting events.
The family wish to thank Dr. Sarah MacEwan for her medical care, kindness and attention above and beyond. Marlene adored her.
A memorial service will take place on Monday, August 12, 2024 at 1:00 pm. at Saanich Baptist Church, 4347 Wilkinson Rd., Saanich, BC. (Dress casual). In lieu of flowers donations could be made to Cops for Cancer Tour de Rock.
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We would like to extend our sincere condolences for your loss of Marlene . What an extraordinary woman indeed .
Marlene touched our family in many ways . And we feel blessed to have known her . Hockey days in the younger years with Bill and Rick and my many years with her in cardiology .
We always would stop to chat over patient transfers to her floor. We talked kids , sports , travel and recipes .
She was an amazing nurse . And a lovely woman in all aspects .She will be missed dearly .
Hug each other tight
The Pettinger Family
Hi Doug and family ,
Doug and I were very sad to hear of Marlene’s passing . We can’t imagine losing your soulmate and the centre of your life . Marlene was a beautiful woman inside and out , we will always remember her lovely smile and all the wonderful delicious dinner parties at your home over the years . She indeed will be missed by all who knew and loved her. Our hearts are with you all
Darlene and Doug
Doug and family I am truly sorry on seeing Maryland’s obituary in today’s paper please accept deepest heartfelt condolences I know how much she meant to you and so many others, I often remember her mother when she was a counsellor in Saanich. You and Marlene and family gave Victoria great leadership to this city and surrounding communities. She was a blessing to many. Take care and know you are in our hearts and prayers. Carl and Shirley Bolger
Leanne, Ron and family, Lorne and I are so sorry to hear of Marlene’s passing and the loss to your family. She will be greatly missed by all of you, but your hearts and memories are filled with her love, spirit and joy. Just the other day we were admiring “Marlene’s roses” in the yard next door. You are in our thoughts.
Nancy and Lorne Fletcher
Harv and I are saddened to hear of Marlene’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. Her light will always shine brightly through treasured memories.
Love to you all
Harv and Penny Stevenson
Your friendship your family your love
You shared everything you cared about so generously as a beautiful little grade seven child from the first day we met
You were the girl “all the boys wanted to know and all the girls wanted to be”
As we all grew up to this writing; nobody’s heart you ever touched has ever forgotten you
One of thoes rare beauties who made us all feel as if we were the only one in the room when you were engaging us
Your wonderful Doug and amazing family, truly the gift God gave you for never disappointing
I am humble and grateful God put you on my path all thoes years ago my treasured friend
Thank you for the best memories of love laughter and happiness shared so long ago to last a lifetime
To the dearest family ever may God carry you on this painful leg of your journey
With love always
TaraLyn
AKA
(“Lynda Hughes”) as your mom affectionately called me until her passing
I had the pleasure of working with Marlene at Royal Jubilee hospital 4 Royal. I was working the night shift with 2 others, When the blizzard of 96 started. We were commenting all night long about how much snow was falling.
When morning came nobody seemed to be coming in. Radio stated it was near impossible to get around.I was walking down the hall when a snow covered figure came toward me.. A voice called out Good Morning! I replied Marlene is that you? Marlene had walked all the way from her home to the hospital . I could hardly believe it, we were so happy see her. Such consideration and dedication to her coworkers.
Sincere condolences to her family.
My heart is both breaking and filled to the brim with love and amazing memories. Whether it was at the pickleball courts or happy hour or a quick 7 hour shipping trip it was always filled with laughter. I remember her calling asking to borrow tables and chairs as they were having a dinner Saturday night. Then asking me to bring vegetables. I said sure, for how many and she responded 30. That was Marlene. My deepest condolences to Doug and your amazing family. We are all so much better for having her in our lives. Much love to you all.
Marlene has been in my thoughts all week. A year ago she and Doug visited with us in Qualicum and we were looking forward to this year’s visit. When I was 22 I started dating Dave and he took me to Doug & Marlene’s for Christmas dinner where I was welcomed by the Richardson family, including Grandma Harriet and Nanny Mary. After that we spent every occasion including Christmas, birthdays, Police balls, and many Sunday brunches, together. Marlene was a wonderful hostess and great cook who welcomed everyone into her home and kitchen, while she calmly made a fabulous dinner. Over the years our numbers grew and Marlene and Doug welcomed my parents and our babies into their home. Marlene and Doug were the first up to the hospital when our babies were born and Marlene had a baby shower for me in their home. She was a wonderful sister-in-law to Dave and me and a wonderful Aunt to our daughters. We are thankful she was in our lives and we cherish the memories of our years together.
Doug and family, I wish to extend my sincere condolences to you all.
What a comfort to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that one day you will be reunited again in Heaven with your beloved wife and mother.
I pray God’s peace and comfort that only He can give upon each of you.
From cousin Janice